Prideful Shabbat at Temple Israel New Rochelle Hail Marriage Equality

Temple celebrates gay pride as historic bill passes.

The legalization of gay marriage in New York State is tied directly to its economic success said Albany Law School Professor Paul Finkelman to members of Friday night.

Smiles, hugs, kisses and high fives were exchanged inside the temple as news of the passage of the bill that would legalize gay marriage in New York State passed 33-29.

Governor Andrew Cuomo signed the bill shortly after midnight Saturday morning. The passage came just days shy of the anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, which some consider the birthplace of the gay rights movement.

“This is the first stone in the road that will lead to downfall of the DOMA [Defense of Marriage Act],” said Finkleman the guest speaker at the temple's third annual Pride Shabbat.

Finkelman treated members of the temple to a brief lesson on how the rights of others have been used as political tools throughout history. The professor pointed to various events like the first Jewish citizen to stand night watch in the newly renamed city of New York and his claim to a share of land that guaranteed him rights and the same privileges and protections afford to all citizens of the city.

He also alluded to the Lincoln-Douglas debates and the integration of the U.S. military during World War II as events that paved the way for African-Americans' rights that culminated in the Civil Rights movement.

“It’s about civil rights, stupid,” exclaimed Finkelman rewording then Arkansas Governor Bill Clinton’s campaign slogan adding, “It’s not about sex or marriage or law. It is about civil rights and the rights of people to show affection for whoever they want to.”

The congregation of Temple Israel of New Rochelle is known for its welcoming nature and robust series of events that embraces gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender individuals and their families as valued members of our community.

“I don’t want to say it out loud. I don’t want to jinx it,” said Linda Barat, who along with Sharon Gorman-Cooper head the Kulanu Committee that supports and advocates for all LGBT individuals, families and friends.

As members arrived for the Shabbat service, rumblings of “Any word yet? Is it done?” filled the temple halls.

Gorman-Cooper and Barat waited with bated breath as news slowly trickled into the temple via smart phones and word of mouth.

“I was afraid they are going to do the Senator Bruno trick of inaction,” said John Hirsh, who along with Herbert Leiman trekked from Great Neck, Long Island to take part in the Pride Shabbat.

“The fact that New York was not the first state to legalize gay marriage is an embarrassment,” Finkelman told New Rochelle Patch. “You cannot be a major player in the world economy and have bigotry and hate as part of your culture. We are in competition with London, Berlin and other major centers around the world. Not having [gay marriage] legal in the state is driving business away,” he added.

The Albany Law School professor pointed to major industry leaders like New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg who have championed the cause.

“There is nothing logical about stopping the passage of the bill. All the arguments are about irrational fears,” Finkelman said. It was statement he echoed in his address to the congregation during the Shabbat service.

Finkelman explained that marriage is a civil contract defined by the law not religion, adding that the United States Supreme Court has ruled that sex between members of the same sex is constitutional, begging the question why not gay marriage?

When asked about how state Senate Republicans were discussing the bill behind closed doors Finkleman said, “It’s completely absurd. It’s publicly embarrassing to them to say I oppose or I support. Besides sunlight kills bacteria.”

Finkleman opened the floor to questions after the ceremony answering as completely as possible.

A congregant asked him about the amendment to the bill that would indemnify religious institutions from having to perform weddings.

“It is a way of saying look what I did to stand against it. I want voters to know I am against it and I protected the institution. It gives them an out by saying we did our best,” Finkleman responded.

As news of the up or down vote came in and hugs and kisses were exchanged, Linda Barat reflected on the professor’s comments.

“I’m a romantic in every way. Everyone should have the chance to love and the opportunity to marry any one they wish,” she said.

Polly Mitzman July 19, 2011 at 03:14 AM
You seem to have all the answers, why don't you tell me? Jesus was a faithful practicioner of the Jewish faith as he himself says so in the bible, which I have read. Other people's personal choices regards lifestyle, religion, political affiliation, etc. are none of your business so long as they aren't hurting anyone. Despite whatever sins you feel may have been commited, It's not for you to judge...you aren't God. Follow your own path and let others follow theirs in peace. To me, the bible is little more than an old book jabronied together from cleverly chosen gospels 1200 years ago to promote the political agenda of Emporer Constantine. Ever heard of the Council at Niceae...That's when and where the bible was originally piecemealed together. It's been translated and re-interpreted by as many institutions and as many times as it is years old. While I respect your personal choice to honor it, it's not exactly my idea of a reliable source.
Francis T McVetty July 19, 2011 at 08:32 PM
Polly, There are many, many people that don't agree with you. I really don't know or really care if you believe in anything. I was pointing out what is in the old testament. By the way you didn't answer my question about Jesus, did you? You would probably be one of those who would have chose the thief. By the way what does <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Council_of_Nicaea> have to do with the OLD testament? Maybe you may want to review what you were taught in shul. <http://wiki.answers.com/Q/When_did_Judaism_begin> I may NOT have all the answers, but I do know enough to discuss the points without insulting anyone religion. From what you have posted it seems that you are one of the lost lambs Jesus was looking for. May God bless you and help you find your faith again.
SRT July 19, 2011 at 11:58 PM
I agree with Polly!
Meredith Lesly July 20, 2011 at 12:12 AM
You might want to read the bible and see what it says about stoning people. Or do you pick and choose what you follow?
Stuy Guy July 20, 2011 at 02:19 AM
The bottom line is tolerance. If Evangelicals, Catholics and Muslims don't believe in marriage equality, don't engage in it. No one makes you provide it in your faith. But don't impose your beliefs on Reform Judaism, Episcopalians and some other mainstream Protestants and Unitarians who do believe it. And most of all, those who do not share any faith tradition. The great horror of the ages is the imposition by violence and law one religion upon those of another faith. Millions died because the king (i.e. the govt) MADE people accept one faith or suffer death. Let people live in secular peace, as long as it doesn't infringe on your practices. You and those of your belief may aboslutely exclude gays from the sacraments including marriage. But you want to sciety at large to join you in that exclusion.


More »
Got a question? Something on your mind? Talk to your community, directly.
Note Article
Just a short thought to get the word out quickly about anything in your neighborhood.
Share something with your neighbors.What's on your mind?What's on your mind?Make an announcement, speak your mind, or sell somethingPost something
See more »